Maybe it’s the similarity in the delicate features, the paleness that suggests vulnerability, I don’t know, but when I looked at Kenneth James Weishuhn’s picture, I couldn’t help it: I immediately thought of Matthew Shepard, the young gay boy beaten and left to die almost 14 years ago in the Wyoming wilderness.
Kenneth died instead by his own hand, and in the relative civility of a small town in Iowa, where same sex marriage -- not civil unions, not domestic partnership, not any of the second-hand versions of marrying same-sex lovers, but actual marriage -- is legal.
And Kenneth, perhaps unlike Matthew in his time, aspired to the simple right of having a future love recognized by family and community. His Pinterest page, “When I get Married," reveals a tasteful array of things Kenneth wanted to import into his future wedding.
Kenneth short-circuited that when he committed suicide.
Remember Lt. John Pike and his pepper spray? You know, the campus cop who pepper sprayed peaceful Occupy protests at the University of California Davis campus. Pike, who was suspended from his job as his 



