Mother-daughter relationship evolves over time

May 9, 2014

Judith Martinez has been a mother her entire life. But it hasn’t always been easy.

Judith’s father was abusive to her mother when she was a child. And as a teenager, she encouraged her mom to leave her dad. Eventually they did leave, and Judith had to help her mom raise her siblings. Judith struggled in school and worked as a cashier at a corner store to help her mom pay bills.

Then at age 16, Judith became pregnant and she had to decide how she was going to move forward.

“When I told my mom, she got devastated….and it crushed me.”

StoryCorps’ mission is to provide Americans of all backgrounds and beliefs with the opportunity to share, record and preserve their stories. This excerpt was edited by WBEZ.

“So that’s when I decided. Nobody put a gun to my head. These are consequences when you have sex. So now I’m gonna deal with it. Whether I get support from my mom or not.”

Judith was recorded for StoryCorps in Little Village, at a community organization called Enlace Chicago.