Ecuadoran Family Finds Refuge With Salesians

March 22, 2011

Larry Abramson

Larry Abramson
Maribel Olmedo in her house surrounded by some of her children. Standing from left to right, Hamilton 16, sitting down is Jonathan, 12. On Maribel's lap is Pierina, 2, and her infant son Jose. The family struggles to make ends meet, but Olmedo says she's grateful her children are alive.

Maribel Olmedo doesn't complain about life, even though life has not been kind. She doesn't ask for much either.

"My only dream is to set up a food business at home," Olmedo says.

She already has a big, empty freezer, but doesn't have start-up money. The toothless mother of seven children between the ages of one and a half and 15 is home-bound since her son Jonathan, 13, was hit by a car about two years ago.

The boy endured a brain injury on his way home from school on a Friday evening. He can't speak or walk, but he seems to understand his surroundings –- and he smiles easily.

"Doctors didn't think he'd live," she says. "Jonathan was in deep coma for 16 days and he was tube fed."

But in spite of the difficulties and the steep road ahead, she's optimistic.

"He's recovering nicely, he's doing extremely well" she adds proudly, "I feed him a lot of good things."

The family was vulnerable and marginalized even before the terrible accident, but now the future is much more uncertain. Before the accident Olmedo was a street merchant.

She'd take her children along the streets of Guayaquil — the largest city in Ecuador — to sell water bottles, toilet paper and toothpaste.

"We would team up in three to work, I'd sell, one of my kids would take care of the merchandise, the third one would take care of the money, because in Guayaquil we have the metropolitan police, and they steal your merchandise" she says.

She has no nice words for the cops: "They call themselves police, but they are thieves."

Olmedo is 37 but she looks much older — signs of poverty etched on her terribly frail frame. Her vivacious black eyes shine when she speaks about her children. Jose, her youngest, sits on her lap and the others hover around her.

Weathering Storms

Life in the slums of Ecuador is hard — children and women can easily fall victims to prostitution, drugs and abuse. This is a reason why Olmedo has always kept her kids behind closed doors to make sure they were not hanging out with bad company in the streets.

Most of the houses in Duran, a relatively new settlement in the outskirts of Guayaquil where the family lives, are one-bedroom cane shacks built up on stilts to prevent flooding.

Olmedo is one of the lucky residents. Her house is a concrete cinder block home. She and her husband bought the land from the city about 12 years ago and lived in a cane shack until last year when the Salesians of Don Bosco, a Roman Catholic order, helped the family build the house.

The rainy season does a number in Duran — the roads are not paved so they become rivers of mud. Olmedo laughs while giving visitors a tour of her house, "water leaks through the roof when it rains," she says.

Like many other slums, this has few services. It does have electricity but no running water.

Olmedo's husband is gone temporarily and so is his income. Since December last year he's recovering from an undiagnosed illness. Olmedo couldn't take care of him and he moved back to his mother's home in Esmeraldas, which is home to the majority of the Afro-Ecuadorian population.

Olmedo hasn't had a steady income since Jonathan's accident and three meals a day are a rarity. She and her kids live off of church handouts.

Hamilton, 16, and Cristian, 14, live in a Salesian shelter for boys during the week where they attend school and come home for weekends. Carolina, 9, Samuel,5, and Pierina, 2, are not in school, but Olmedo says she'll get them in school as soon as she can.

She has been waiting for insurance money from the accident. She says she's is hopeful about the future and she laughs when asked how can she be so positive.

She thinks for a moment and says "my children are alive." Copyright 2011 National Public Radio. To see more, visit http://www.npr.org/.