WBEZ | sexuality http://www.wbez.org/tags/sexuality Latest from WBEZ Chicago Public Radio en Angelina Jolie's double mastectomy, message to women http://www.wbez.org/blogs/leah-pickett/2013-05/angelina-jolies-double-mastectomy-message-women-107146 <p><p><img alt="" class="image-original_image" src="http://llnw.wbez.org/styles/original_image/llo/insert-images/Angelina+Jolie+Women+World+Summit+2013+YU0jH7mzUNax-e1365152773248.jpg" title="Angelina Jolie attends the Women in the World Summit in New York on April 4, 2013. (Reuters) " /></p><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><p><a href="http://www.nbcwashington.com/entertainment/celebrity/Angelina_Jolie_Voted_Most_Beautiful_Woman_World.html" target="_blank">Angelina Jolie</a>&nbsp;may be one of the most beautiful women to ever grace the silver screen. In real life, she seems almost too perfect: an alien-like presence of unattainable sexuality (ask any geekboy who first ogled her curves in <em>Lara Croft Tomb Raider</em>) whom many women have been <a href="http://halloftheblackdragon.com/reel/women-hate-angelina-jolie-so-we-love-her/" target="_blank">quick to hate</a> despite her outstanding work as a <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2012/09/11/world/meast/syria-civil-war" target="_blank">UN Ambassador</a> and comittment to feminist causes around the world.&nbsp;</p><div class="image-insert-image ">Perhaps this idea of Jolie as an aloof ice-princess being <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2324149/Angelina-Jolie-reveals-double-mastectomy-learning-87-risk-breast-cancer.html?ito=feeds-newsxml" target="_blank">shattered overnight</a> is why her recent reveal of a double mastectomy feels all the more inspiring and important. She had her storied breasts removed, and she wants other women to know that it&#39;s okay to do the same.&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">In a <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/14/opinion/my-medical-choice.html?_r=2&amp;" target="_blank">powerful op-ed</a>&nbsp;for the <em>New York Times,&nbsp;</em>Jolie describes how she recently underwent surgery to combat a &quot;faulty gene&quot; that predisposed her to breast and ovarian cancer:&nbsp;</div><blockquote><div class="image-insert-image ">&quot;My doctors estimated that I had an 87 percent risk of breast cancer and a 50 percent chance of ovarian cancer,&quot; Jolie writes, &quot;Once I knew this was my reality, I decided to be proactive and to minimize the risk as much as I could. I made a decision to have a preventive double mastectomy. I started with the breasts, as my risk of breast cancer is much higher than my risk of ovarian cancer, and the surgery more complex.&quot;</div></blockquote><div class="image-insert-image ">Jolie&#39;s decision was no doubt a difficult one, but the op-ed does not read &quot;woe is me&quot; or at all. In fact, Jolie&#39;s purpose for writing the piece is clear: she wants women in a similar situation to be informed about their options and unafraid to take drastic action if need be.</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">Of course, Jolie is ridiculously wealthy and can afford the best healthcare imaginable. But rather than glossing over this privilege as if it doesn&#39;t exist, she makes a point of admitting that &quot;the cost of testing for BRCA1 and BRCA2, at more than $3,000 in the United States, remains an obstacle for many women.&quot;&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">Moreover, being rich and famous does not exclude her from the same horrible disease that <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20010082,00.html" target="_blank">took her own mother&#39;s life</a>&nbsp;(ovarian cancer) and the lives of myriads more who will never have their names in the papers. Jolie also points out that breast cancer alone kills <a href="http://www.komennyc.org/site/DocServer/Global_Breast_and_Cancer_Facts-_6-30-10.pdf?docID=3881" target="_blank">458,000 people</a> each year, according to the World Health Organization, mainly in low and middle-income countries.&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">Then Jolie addresses the big elephant in the room: does she feel like less of a <a href="http://www.azcentral.com/thingstodo/celebrities/free/20130118angelina-jolie-sex-symbol.html" target="_blank">sex symbol</a> now that her famous breasts have been removed? Absolutely not, she says:</div><blockquote><div class="image-insert-image ">&quot;On a personal note, I don&#39;t feel like any less of a woman [for having this surgery]. I feel empowered that I made a strong choice that in no way diminishes my femininity.&quot;</div></blockquote><div class="image-insert-image ">So whether you like Jolie or not, as an actress or as a human being you&#39;ve only seen in movies and read about in gossip rags, at least she is strong enough to tell you that her womanhood is not defined by her outward appearance. I admire her for this message, as a woman&#39;s decision to remove her breasts and ovaries&mdash;which many believe to be the very essence of their sexuality&mdash;is often one of the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.drlauraberman.com/sexual-health/your-body/double-mastectomy" target="_blank">hardest choices</a>&nbsp;that she will ever have to make.&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">Still, <em>choice</em> is the most important word here. The title of Jolie&#39;s op-ed is &quot;My Medical Choice,&quot; implying that other women should also feel just as free to make their own decisions in regards to their personal health and wellbeing.</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">Recent studies have shown that most women who undergo double mastectomies <a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/11/121127190018.htm" target="_blank">don&#39;t really need them</a>. However,&nbsp;shouldn&#39;t the woman be the one to decide, especially if she feels that the risk of succumbing to the same fate as her family members or leaving her children motherless is ultimately too great of a risk to take?&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">In the end, Jolie is grateful that she can tell children, in all confidence, that &quot;they don&#39;t need to fear they will lose me to breast cancer.&quot; And for many women, that is more than enough reason to part with their breasts and still be as beautiful, feminine and unbreakable in their inherent womanhood as ever.&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><div class="image-insert-image ">Note: Chicago&#39;s own <a href="http://kartemquin.com" target="_blank">Kartemquin Films</a>&nbsp;produced an amazing Emmy-nominated documentary on this topic, <em><a href="http://inthefamily.kartemquin.com/content/watch-family-free-online" target="_blank">In the Family</a>, </em>that&nbsp;will stream online at <a href="http://www.pbs.org/pov/inthefamily/" target="_blank">PBS.org</a>&nbsp;for an extra two weeks in light of Ms. Jolie&#39;s announcement.</div><div class="image-insert-image ">&nbsp;</div><p><em>Leah writes about popular culture for WBEZ. Follow her on <a href="https://twitter.com/leahkpickett" target="_blank">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/leahkristinepickett" target="_blank">Facebook</a> and <a href="http://hermionehall.tumblr.com" target="_blank">Tumblr</a>.&nbsp;</em></p></p> Tue, 14 May 2013 08:00:00 -0500 http://www.wbez.org/blogs/leah-pickett/2013-05/angelina-jolies-double-mastectomy-message-women-107146 Sex Wars: The Turbulent Times of the First Wave of the Women's Movement http://www.wbez.org/series/chicago-amplified/sex-wars-turbulent-times-first-wave-womens-movement-107181 <p><p>Post-Civil War New York City is the battleground of the American dream: an era of vast fortunes and crushing poverty &mdash; an era surprisingly like our own, in which some of the most infamous characters in American history collide over the issues of sexuality, censorship, women&rsquo;s rights, and privacy.</p><div>In a sprawling fictionalized history written in the epic style of <strong>Marge Piercy</strong>&rsquo;s critically acclaimed <em>Gone to Soldiers</em>, <em>Sex Wars</em> unfolds through the alternating viewpoints of Victoria Woodhull, notorious advocate of sexual freedom and candidate for President of the United States; Anthony Comstock, feared morals crusader who fought to eliminate sexual expression; the free thinking suffragist Elizabeth Cady Stanton; and Freydeh, a spirited young Jewish woman from Russia who takes up condom-making to support herself and her unconventional family.</div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>Marge Piercy is the author of seventeen novels including The New York Times Bestseller <em>Gone To Soldiers; the National Bestsellers Braided Lives and The Longings of Women and the classic Woman on the Edge of Time</em>; eighteen volumes of poetry, and a critically acclaimed memoir<em> Sleeping with Cats</em>. Born in center city Detroit, educated at the University of Michigan, the recipient of four honorary doctorates, she has been a key player in many of the major progressive political battles of our time, including the anti-Vietnam war and the women&rsquo;s movement, and more recently an active participant in the resistance to the war in Iraq.</div><div>&nbsp;</div><div><div class="image-insert-image "><img alt="" class="image-original_image" src="http://www.wbez.org/system/files/styles/original_image/llo/insert-images/JAHH-webstory_9.jpg" style="float: left;" title="" /></div></div><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Recorded live Tuesday, April 14, 2013 at the&nbsp;Jane Addams Hull-House Museum.</p></p> Tue, 16 Apr 2013 11:24:00 -0500 http://www.wbez.org/series/chicago-amplified/sex-wars-turbulent-times-first-wave-womens-movement-107181 Why are so few Japanese seeking relationships and sexual partners? http://www.wbez.org/episode-segments/2012-01-18/why-are-so-few-japanese-seeking-relationships-and-sexual-partners-95622 <img typeof="foaf:Image" src="http://llnw.wbez.org/segment/photo/2012-January/2012-01-18/japan3.jpg" alt="" /><p><p>Japan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. Thus, every five years, the Japanese government conducts a study on attitudes toward sex and marriage.</p><p>Recent findings suggest that the birth rate will probably continue to plummet. The reason? Compared to societies around the world, the Japanese aren’t having sex -- as much as a quarter of all unmarried men and women have never even had sex. What's more, many Japanese say they do not want a partner. According to one report&nbsp; 90 percent of young Japanese women said they preferred to stay single.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="http://www.cla.purdue.edu/asian-studies/directory/index.cfm?p=Daniel_Aldrich" target="_blank">Daniel Aldrich</a> is a professor of political science at Purdue University who focuses on Japan. He tells <em>Worldview</em> what the government survey reveals about society, and sexuality, in Japan.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p></p> Wed, 18 Jan 2012 16:35:00 -0600 http://www.wbez.org/episode-segments/2012-01-18/why-are-so-few-japanese-seeking-relationships-and-sexual-partners-95622 Survey reveals many Japanese are skipping sex http://www.wbez.org/episode-segments/2012-01-18/survey-reveals-many-japanese-are-skipping-sex-95620 <img typeof="foaf:Image" src="http://llnw.wbez.org/segment/photo/2012-January/2012-01-18/japan2.jpg" alt="" /><p><p>In Japan, not much is happening between the sheets in many marriages. And it’s not necessarily that different for single people, either.</p><p>According to a recent government survey on attitudes toward sex and marriage, one in four unmarried Japanese men has never ever had sex. Twenty five percent of women between 35 and 39 have also never had sex.</p><p>Chie Ohlsson is originally from Kobe, Japan but moved to the U.S. in 1999. She's married to an American but makes frequent trips back to Japan for her marketing job. Chie tells <em>Worldview</em> why the government's findings don't really surprise her.</p></p> Wed, 18 Jan 2012 16:29:00 -0600 http://www.wbez.org/episode-segments/2012-01-18/survey-reveals-many-japanese-are-skipping-sex-95620