WBEZ | stickney http://www.wbez.org/tags/stickney Latest from WBEZ Chicago Public Radio en Why are thousands of Chicago's Chinese buried out in Stickney? http://www.wbez.org/news/culture/why-are-thousands-chicagos-chinese-buried-out-stickney-112017 <p><div class="image-insert-image "><img alt="" class="image-original_image" src="http://www.wbez.org/system/files/styles/original_image/llo/insert-images/stickneychinesechrinemeng.jpg" title="At Mount Auburn Cemetery in Stickney, visitors can burn gifts for their dead ancestors at this altar created for the purpose. (Monica Eng/WBEZ)" /></div><p>For nearly a century Chicago&rsquo;s Chinese have been making spring pilgrimages to southwest suburban Stickney.</p><p>It&rsquo;s not for the food &mdash; in fact they usually bring their own. And it&rsquo;s not for their culture &mdash; the suburb is historically Bohemian. But there are more than 8,000 other reasons to visit: the graves of their ancestors that reside way in the back of Mount Auburn Memorial Park.</p><p>On a recent early spring morning, Vivian and Kevin Mei were there with three generations of their family. And they were having a picnic on their grandfather&rsquo;s grave.</p><p>&ldquo;We brought a whole roasted pork, some of our granddad&rsquo;s favorite shrimp dumplings, we brought bread, we brought beverages, chicken and duck,&rdquo; Mei said while an uncle took a cleaver to the pig.</p><p>&ldquo;You bring what they liked to eat when they were alive,&rdquo; Kevin added.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>Sharing foods that ancestors loved is an important part of this annual tradition called Qing Ming. Families are also encouraged to visit on special dates in the fall to make sure dead relatives are well-prepared for the cold days ahead.&nbsp;</p><p>During these times each year, thousands of Chicagoans like the Meis flock to Mount Auburn carrying plastic bags and bakery boxes bulging with pastries, pork buns and meat.&nbsp;</p><p>Long rows of cars snake down the narrow road leading back to the Chinese section where an altar provides a safe place for burning paper money and gifts for the dead.</p><p>&ldquo;My understanding is that you first light the incense to open the path,&rdquo; Grace Fong said, &ldquo;and then you can burn the rest of the gifts.&rdquo;</p><p>Jim Yong was carrying bags heavy with food when he arrived with his wife and small children.&nbsp;</p><p>&ldquo;Every year, we come out and visit them and feed them, just do the normal thing,&rdquo; he said. &ldquo;And pretty much just bringing the two little ones to show them what the Chinese tradition is about.&rdquo;<br /><br /><span style="font-size:22px;">Why Stickney?</span></p><p>Yong&rsquo;s been trekking to this blue collar suburb since he was a kid, but like a lot of visitors, he was never quite sure why this location was chosen.&nbsp;</p><p>&ldquo;My understanding when Chinatown started &mdash; and this is from my great- grandparents &mdash; was that they were selling donations,&rdquo; he explained. &ldquo;And each person who donated some money would get a spot here.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>There are a lot of family stories like that, trying to make sense of why people who lived in the city &mdash; one with plenty of cemeteries &mdash; would make Stickney their final resting place.</p><p>Source after source suggested asking the Chinese Consolidated Benevolent Association in Chinatown. After all, this social service agency has been setting up Chinese burials at Mount Auburn for almost 100 years. But the CCBA wasn&rsquo;t all that helpful. In fact, they said they couldn&rsquo;t find any original documents related to those early years.</p><p>Still, one official who calls himself &ldquo;GK&rdquo; offered a couple of theories.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /><br />&ldquo;Could be the reason they went to Mount Auburn was because it was not really a Catholic cemetery or any particular religious denomination cemetery, just a regular cemetery on the Southwest side,&rdquo; he said. &ldquo;And to get down there was an easy route down Ogden [Avenue] before 55 was ever built.&rdquo;</p><p>But 91-year-old Eunice Wong thinks there&rsquo;s a more sinister angle. She&rsquo;s the daughter of the late, powerful Chicago businessman Tom Chan Sr. Chan&rsquo;s first wife was buried at Rosehill Cemetery on the North Side around 1920. But when it came time to bury Chan himself in 1944, &ldquo;They refused to have him buried,&rdquo; she said.</p><p><span style="font-size:22px;">Incense and misunderstanding</span></p><p>&ldquo;They said their other clients did not like the Chinese burning incense and stuff like that,&rdquo; Wong recalled. &ldquo;They said they dirtied up the cemetery because they bring food and all that kind of stuff.&rdquo;</p><p>Indeed, stories from the <a href="http://undereverystone.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-chinamen-who-were-asked-to-leave.html">Chicago Daily Tribune in 1944</a> pretty much confirm Wong&rsquo;s version of Caucasian-only policy and her father&rsquo;s exclusion.</p><p>But they also indicate Rosehill&rsquo;s main objection was the Chinese practice of digging up bones and sending them back to China. Back then, many Chinese believed a person&rsquo;s final resting place should be in his native soil. Rosehill&rsquo;s management told the Tribune in 1944 its other clients were freaked out by &ldquo;the scenes and the stench.&quot;</p><p>Wong&rsquo;s family, however, didn&rsquo;t want to dig up any bones. They were here to stay, so they couldn&rsquo;t understand the exclusion.&nbsp;</p><p>&ldquo;We were angry because it would have been so much simpler if he could have been buried there,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;And that&rsquo;s how we ended up at Mount Auburn.&rdquo;</p><p>In recent years the Chinese community has been welcomed back to Rosehill, which came under new ownership in 1991.&nbsp;<br /><br />Still, the majority have stuck with Stickney &mdash; Jim Yong among them.&nbsp;</p><p><img alt="" class="image-original_image" src="http://www.wbez.org/system/files/styles/original_image/llo/insert-images/chinesegraves.jpg" title="Many Chinese families bring gifts of food when they visit their ancestors at Mount Auburn Memorial Park in Stickney. (WBEZ/MONICA ENG) " /></p><p>On the windy Qing Ming weekend, his kids were cheerfully spreading rainbow-colored towels on their great-grandparents graves, as their dad explained the day.</p><p>&ldquo;We burn incense,&rdquo; Yong said. &ldquo;We also burn money so they can have have their spending and clothes and everything like that. Then we just pretty much stay with them for the rest of the day.&rdquo;</p><p>For now, Qing Ming traditions remain strong at Mount Auburn. On certain spring weekends it can feel like many of the Chicago area&rsquo;s 100,000 Chinese (many foreign-born) are throwing a big family reunion in a single spot. Many have even started to schedule their visits before or after the holiday to avoid the crowds.</p><p>But, it&rsquo;s unclear just how long the younger generations will keep up the practice. Twenty-something barista Kevin Mei says he&rsquo;s not even sure which days he&rsquo;s supposed to visit. So how does he know when to go?</p><p>&ldquo;Grandma just tells me, &lsquo;It&rsquo;s time to go!&rdquo;</p><p><em>Monica Eng is a WBEZ producer and co-host of the Chewing The Fat podcast. Follow her at</em><a href="https://twitter.com/monicaeng"> <em>@monicaeng</em></a> <em>or write to her at meng@wbez.org</em></p></p> Tue, 12 May 2015 08:28:00 -0500 http://www.wbez.org/news/culture/why-are-thousands-chicagos-chinese-buried-out-stickney-112017 Suburban board election to be decided by coin flip http://www.wbez.org/news/suburban-board-election-be-decided-coin-flip-106923 <img typeof="foaf:Image" src="http://llnw.wbez.org//main-images/Stickney_130501_sh.JPG" alt="" /><p><p>In April, the Stickney&#39;s Village Board of Trustees election tied with 573 votes for each candidate. Under Illinois law, ties must be broken by lottery-- usually a coin toss. So David DeLeshe and Lea Torres met at the Cook County Clerk&rsquo;s office to decide the winner.</p><p>DeLeshe sat at one end of the room, bouncing his knee. He said he had been feeling&nbsp; nervous since the ballot counts started coming in. &ldquo;Initially, I was down by four, then the next day by three, several days later it was down to a tie. So [I feel] anxiety to the point that I want it over,&rdquo; he said.</p><p>Torres sat at the other end of the room, with a few good luck charms in her purse. &ldquo;There are just little holy cards from my mom, dad and mother and law. I keep them close to my heart all the time.&rdquo;</p><p>There was a&nbsp; brief discussion of using a half dollar or quarter from Illinois. But neither was on hand, so they used a Hawaii quarter.</p><p>DeLeshe won a drawing that determined who would get to call heads or tails. Then Cook County Clerk David Orr flipped the coin. DeLeshe called heads. The coin rolled on the floor, and everyone crowded around it.</p><p>&ldquo;There it is, it looks like a head. So David is the new trustee of Stickney,&rdquo; announced Orr.</p><p>Those who are skeptical about whether or not their vote matters, might want to consider that Cook County suburban elections have been decided by coin toss in both 2007 and 2011.</p><p>As for that quarter? DeLeshe says he will frame it.</p><p><em>Shannon Heffernan is a WBEZ reporter. Follow her <a href="http://twitter.com/shannon_h" target="_blank">@shannon_h</a></em></p></p> Wed, 01 May 2013 08:53:00 -0500 http://www.wbez.org/news/suburban-board-election-be-decided-coin-flip-106923