How does one go about inviting a man over for dinner, when you really want to initiate the three-way sequence?  Pointy-headed science writer Jesse Bering speaks with Dan about the ubiquity of fantasies involving power and control.  And, squirm along as Dan speaks with Slate reporter Daniel Engber on the horrifying tale of the cannibal cop.  206-201-2720 Today’s episode is brought to you by Warby Parker Eyewear. Be sure to check out their home try-on program, and for god’s sake, use offer code: Savage.  Today’s episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter “Savage” at checkout.