A woman is going nuts because her boyfriend insists on keeping a memento of his previous girlfriend. Is he being unreasonable, or is she the mayor of Crazytown?  A straight man wonders if it’s too weird to ask his martial arts partner to be his “kink buddy.”  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Salon writer Tracy Clark-Flory about the “Involuntary Celibates” community, and the rampant misogyny within it. Yikes! Also, meet yet another casualty in the Kissing Wars.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code “Savage”. This episode is also brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at AudiblePodcast.com/Savage   This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter “Savage” for $55 free postage and a digital scale.