Comfortable first dates and nerve-wracking proposals

Married couple Joe and Audrey Krolicki.
Married couple Joe and Audrey Krolicki. Photo by StoryCorps
Married couple Joe and Audrey Krolicki.
Married couple Joe and Audrey Krolicki. Photo by StoryCorps

Comfortable first dates and nerve-wracking proposals

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Married couple Joe and Audrey Krolicki. (Photo by StoryCorps)

First dates are often a nerve-racking business.

But when Joe Krolicki met Audrey Suh, his future wife, he says he was immediately comfortable.

Part of what charmed him? He thought she was loud, and had a loud laugh.

AUDREY: “Oh, I have a very loud laugh, that’s true.”

JOE: “Which was good for me because I’m always told that I’m loud. So maybe her loud laugh will drown out my loud laugh when we’re out in public. So I thought that was a good thing. I just felt like immediate comfort with you.”

AUDREY: “Yeah, I definitely felt like: ‘Oh I already know this person.‘”

The couple dated, and Joe decided to propose. And like many men, he sweated the proposal, but not for the usual reason.

JOE: “So did you know I was going to propose to you?”

AUDREY: “No, you were acting so crazy beforehand, and I wasn’t sure what was going on.”

JOE: “Do you know why I was nervous?”

AUDREY: “Because you were nervous that my ring wasn’t up to snuff, that my diamond wasn’t up to snuff?”

To find out how Joe got the permission of his future father-in-law, and just why he was nervous about the ring, listen to the audio above.

NOTE: Adam Peindl helped produce this story.