'Dear Abby' Ignites Firestorm With Advice On Baby Names
From the moment parents-to-be announce they’re expecting, many are bombarded with possible names for their unborn offspring.
Some are common, some unique, but one thing is clear: everyone’s got an opinion — even famous advice columnists.
Earlier this week, a tweet about a “Dear Abby” advice column from September made waves on social media, pointing out that the column advised a reader not to give their child a “foreign” name. The column elicited sharp rebuke from users online who said “Abby” was encouraging “white washing.”
Dear Twitter,— Simran Jeet Singh (@SikhProf) October 16, 2018
A famous advice columnist is telling people to whitewash their kid's names if they want to be accepted. How should I tell her that's wrong and racist?
Simran Jeet Singh pic.twitter.com/URNbMT5LZ7
If people can learn how to say Tchaikovsky, then they can learn how to pronounce a South Asian name.— Jhumka Gupta, ScD, MPH (@jhumkagupta) October 16, 2018
@dearabby Your advice about “saddling” a child w/ an Indian name is archaic & quite frankly racist. Learning a person’s name affirms their dignity. Understanding the history behind the name enriches understanding and connection. I am named after a ruler of India-won’t change it!— Razia Kosi (@RaziaKosi1) October 17, 2018
GUESTS: Simran Jeet Singh, scholar, activist and Senior Religion Fellow for the Sikh Coalition
Wajahat Ali, New York Times Op-Ed contributor
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