“And I am telling you, I’m not going,” a young Effie White once said. And let’s be real, we’ve all been dream girls, tethered to relationships way past their expiration date. This week, Jennifer, Taylor and Cheryle talk about why they stayed in relationships that weren’t working, why they eventually left, and new approaches to dating that shake things up.

Then Jennifer talks with Tennesha Wood, matchmaker and founder of The Broom List, a matchmaking firm that serves Black, marriage-seeking professionals. She shares her personal love story, sheds light on why we stay in dysfunction, and tells us what your dating app profile reveals about you. If you’ve been waiting to exhale, then shoop shoop.